How do you finger a girl?
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How do you properly finger a girl?
You’ve gotten your girl horny and wet, and you’ve slipped your fingers inside her lady’s part, what do you do?
Where, inside her vagina, do you stroke and how exactly do you stroke to give her the best fingering experience?
To be the best lover your girl or woman has ever had, you need to know how to finger her.
Knowing how to finger a girl or a woman is one of the most pleasurable and enjoyable forms of foreplay there is.
A girl (or a woman) can derive great pleasure from a finger working its way inside her vagina.
That said…
…in this post, I share with you how to finger a girl… or more accurately, how to properly finger a girl to make her come and even squirt.
You will learn the special places to stroke and the fingering techniques to use to give your girl pleasure plus the orgasms she craves.
Ready?
Let’s get started.
Using your fingers is one of the best and easiest ways to bring your girl to an incredible orgasm.
Fingering is not just about penetration
Before you learn how to finger a woman, you should know exactly what to do when your fingers are inside her vagina.
The best way to finger a woman or a girl is to focus on stimulation rather than penetration… in other words, stroke the front vaginal wall as opposed to just pushing your fingers in and out of her.
Sure, it will feel good for your woman when you are finger-fucking her… but these motions alone won’t build her excitement level to the point where she will have an orgasm.
This is because you will not be stimulating the sensitive spots inside her vagina.
Understand…
You will want to give your girl an orgasm when your fingers are inside her.
So again, when fingering your girl or woman, focus on stimulation rather than penetration.
There are two spots in the vagina you will want to stroke:
On the vaginal ceiling… a knuckle and a half to two knuckles pass the vaginal opening. This is where the G-spot is located.
and…
The deepest point on the front vaginal wall, above the cervix… this is the deep spot – most experts refer to this the second G-spot a.k.a. the A-spot, and it is sensitive all around. Stroking or stimulating this area can lead to rapid vaginal lubrication and arousal.
Understand this…
The most sensitive area of the vagina is at the entrance…
…so the deeper you go doesn’t necessarily mean the better it will feel for your woman. Unless you are going for the deep spot (the spot above the cervix).
KEEP READING: How to Find Your Woman’s G-Spot
The Fingering Techniques
One of the best ways to finger a girl is using a come-hither motion…
…this is when you curl and un-curling the tip of your finger over and over again. As if you’re trying to pull something out of her vagina.
Get it?
Aside from fingering a girl in a come-hither motion, you can also press firmly against the vaginal ceiling and stroke that area from side-to-side, or in circles.
Plus, you can also finger her in and out stroking against the vaginal ceiling.
Again, you should not finger-fuck a girl… instead, press the pad of your finger against the vaginal ceiling and go in and out rubbing against the G-spot.
With that said, let’s get started on how to finger a girl good…
Now before you finger a girl:
- Make sure your hands are well manicured – your fingernails must be short and filed smooth.
- Make sure she is sufficiently aroused and wet down there before inserting your fingers inside her. That is, spend a little time on foreplay – kissing and sucking on her nipples and breast. If she isn’t wet enough, lubricate your fingers with a good lubricant.
Now, let’s get started…
How to Finger a Girl to Climax
Begin by running your fingers gently across her genitals…
…run your finger lightly across the clitoral hood. Slide up and down the sides of her clitoris. Rub backward and forward over her labia. Lightly stimulate her perineum (the area between the anus and vaginal opening).
The surface of the vulva contains most of the nerve endings. So take the time to arouse the whole genital area. This will increase her excitement and get her wet and warmed up for the act. You can even stimulate her clitoris with your fingers to get her wet and horny for your fingers inside her.
Two minutes into arousing her genital area and getting her sexually excited and wet, gently insert one finger inside her vagina.
Again, make sure she is wet or your fingers are well lubricated.
Aim for the G-spot
Insert a finger about a knuckle and a half to two knuckles pass the vaginal opening.
With your palm facing upwards, press against the upper vaginal wall. This area is wondrously sensitive and stimulating there will intensify your woman’s pleasure.
You don’t have to go for the G-spot right away… feel around and gently massage the vaginal ceiling in circular strokes, side-to-side, or in a come-hither motion.
When she is aroused enough, you will feel a raised, spongy area on the front wall. Use a come-here motion and stimulate this spot, almost like you are trying to pull it out of her.
Start with one finger and work your way to two fingers when you can tell she is enjoying it.
Stimulate this area with firm pressure at a moderate speed. And gradually increase the speed and pressure as she gets more and more aroused…
…and she will orgasm in no time.
Aiming for the deep spot
You can also go deeper with your middle finger. This is where the deep spot is.
Use the come-hither motion to stimulate this area too. Avoid touching her cervix.
Stimulate this area with firm pressure at a moderate speed as well. And gradually increase the speed and pressure as she gets more and more aroused…
…and she will orgasm in no time.
Moving on…
Keep in mind that you can give a girl incredible orgasms from just one spot.
So instead of stimulating both the G-spot and the A-spots at the same time, you can focus on giving her pleasure from just one spot.
Aside from stimulating the vaginal ceiling, you can also stimulate the left and right wall, and the vaginal floor.
Pay attention to the girl’s body language. Or you can ask her to tell you whether or not she likes what you are doing.
As she gets more aroused, increase the pressure and the speed of your stimulation.
When you can tell she is about to experience an orgasm, continue with the same pressure, speed, and motion until she orgasms.
If you stop and change your technique, she can lose her orgasm.
When you feel a vaginal contraction, it means she is about to orgasm. Here, keep on fingering her at the same speed and pressure, and she will have a vaginal orgasm.
So that’s how to finger a girl.
When your girl feels the need to pee
Stimulating the vaginal ceiling (the G-spot) might feel weird to a girl or a woman…
…she will think she’s about to pee. But it’s an urge to squirt.
Most girls and women will tighten up their PC muscle and prevent themselves from squirting thinking they are about to pee.
When you notice your girl is holding back or retreating, tell her it is normal and that is how it feels when a woman is about to ejaculate.
Assure her she is not going to pee, but rather she is going to squirt. And that when she lets go of her muscles and pushes out, she is going to experience a powerful squirting orgasm.
When you feel her G-spot swelling and she is pushing you out of her, it means she is about to squirt. Here, remove your finger and it will be followed by squirting.
So there you have it…
…how to finger a girl or how to finger your girlfriend.
Take this newly discovered knowledge of how to finger a woman into your relationship and give your girl or your woman or wife powerful orgasms with just your fingers.
Take heart in the fact that you can give a woman powerful orgasms with just your fingers, so do learn how to properly finger a woman or a girl.
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