This article is about the importance of foreplay.
Foreplay, as you already know or if you didn’t, is a sexual activity that precedes intercourse – the passionate and erotic kissing and fondling we engage in for a certain amount of time before we start having sex.
When it comes to sex…
…most of us guys start having sex right out of the gate THE MOMENT we get into bed with women.
Many guys are so eager to be inside a woman that they can’t wait to start having sex right away.
They inadvertently skip foreplay to begin sex… or, if they do engage in foreplay, it’s only for a short time, then they’re on their way down to business.
Now…
…if there’s one thing that almost every guy greatly desires when it comes to sex, it is making girls COME.
Making girls orgasm during sex and rocking their world in bed is a point of pride for us guys… there isn’t a single guy out there who wouldn’t love to be able to give girls orgasms during sex.
But the challenge for most guys when it comes to sex is, they can’t get women to orgasm.
In an attempt to get a woman or a girl to orgasm, they pound at her hard and fast hoping it will happen but it never does.
Sexual intercourse, in the end, is meant to culminate in an orgasm for both partners…
…sadly, many women or girls do not get to experience an orgasm during sex.
Heck, the number one problem in the bedroom is women’s inability to orgasm during intercourse with a partner.
Unlike us men or guys who orgasm every time that we have sex, the majority of girls or women DO NOT orgasm at all.
And the reason is simple…
…because most guys don’t take time to get their women aroused (with foreplay) before they start having sex with them.
So, it is no surprise that many guys, when it comes to sex, can’t get their woman to orgasm in bed.
Foreplay is very important when it comes to sex.
Women naturally require some heavy foreplay to orgasm
For a woman or a girl to orgasm during sex or to get a girl or woman to orgasm during sex, she must be very turned on… and foreplay accomplishes that.
Foreplay is essential to women’s sexual arousal… it gets women aroused for intercourse and enables them to orgasm. [Read: ‘Foreplay and the Female Sexual Arousal and Orgasm’]
Women’s arousal works differently than men
Unlike us guys or men who INSTANTLY get an erection and become sexually aroused very quickly and are ready to fuck and get off at a moment’s notice, women are NOT sexually turned on that quickly and then go on to have an orgasm.
For women, their arousal is a slower process – their arousal cycles up more slowly… their arousal takes a while to get to the level where they’re ready to have sex and orgasm.
…hence, they need ample foreplay to become aroused before they start having sex.
Foreplay readies women’s bodies for intercourse
…it gets them wet.
The vagina becomes lubricated which makes sexual penetration (having a penis thrusting in and out of the vagina) much more pleasurable for women.
Plus, this (vaginal lubrication) opens them up for more intense intercourse – deep penetration and hard fuck. Which they will find pleasurable and not painful.
Intercourse feels better for us men when women are wet.
Foreplay makes women feel more pleasure from intercourse and enjoy sex
Sexual stimulation (or intercourse) is not always pleasurable until a woman becomes very sexually aroused and her vagina is fully engorged, that is filled with blood…
…and dripping wet.
The vagina only becomes sensitive – or in other words, a woman will feel immense pleasure from intercourse – once she is fully aroused, as blood rushes to her genitals.
As a woman or girl gets more and more aroused, more blood rushes to her genitals…
…which causes the whole genitalia – both external and internal – to be extremely sensitive.
This rush of blood to the vagina or the genitals intensifies sensation during sex and gives a girl or woman much deeper pleasure.
Or to put it in other words, the sensitivity levels in the genitals – everything from the clitoris, vaginal lips, and the orgasmic spots inside the vagina (the G-spot and deep spots) – enhance… which makes women feel immense pleasure from intercourse. In other words, having a penis thrusting in and out of their vagina becomes much more pleasurable for them.
…which consequently leads to stronger orgasms than usual. And in a very short time.
Here’s another importance of foreplay
Foreplay not only readies a woman or a girl’s body for sex…
…it’s also a great way to fire up (or awaken) a woman’s libido (or desire) to get her wanting to have sex.
During times when it seems a woman is not in the mood for sex, a good round of foreplay will quickly get her in the mood and she will want to have sex.
Foreplay relaxes women and can get a woman wanting sex.
By giving a woman a good round of foreplay, her body will become aroused and she’ll desire and be receptive to intercourse.
Foreplay makes women feel more pleasure from intercourse and enjoy sex.
So, there you have it…
…the importance of foreplay.
Foreplay is very important when it comes to sex.
It is a warm-up to sexual intercourse for women, so to speak.
It is crucial for good sex and of vital importance if one wants to please or completely satisfy their woman in bed…
…and it is key to getting a woman to orgasm during intercourse.
Foreplay is an absolute MUST when it comes to sex and it shouldn’t be breezed over to quickly begin sex.
You don’t want to get a woman or girl into bed, spread her legs, and then proceed to have intercourse…
…it’s important to get your girl or woman or significant other extremely aroused before you start having sex with her.
Having sex right out of the gate…
…not only will the girl or woman NOT be aroused enough and WET to enjoy penetration and intercourse, but you won’t be able to get her to orgasm.
The vagina will NOT be wet (or lubricated) plus will NOT be sensitive enough for a girl or woman to feel pleasure.
…and both situations or circumstances hinder a woman or a girl’s chances of enjoying intercourse and having an orgasm.
Without the arousal necessary to ready the vagina for intercourse, a girl or woman will be dry during intercourse. In other words, she will not be wet enough – and penetration (or intercourse) will be uncomfortable and even painful for her.
Give a woman ample foreplay before you start having intercourse with her…
A few kisses and a little bit of fondling and sucking of their breast ISN’T enough to get a girl or woman aroused for sex…
…you’ll have to spend about 30 minutes kissing and caressing your girl or woman’s body all over to get her amply aroused before you start to have sex.
…and by the time you’re done and you begin to have sex, she will be extremely wet and her vagina will be intensely sensitive that she will be ready to orgasm the moment you enter her.
The more a woman has been erotically stimulated during foreplay or the more aroused she becomes, the more intense stimulation she will enjoy, and the more easily and quickly she will reach orgasm.
Learn how to get a woman or a girl so turned on to give her orgasm after orgasm as you pound her… including orgasms that are stronger and more intense than anything she has ever experienced before. Click here to learn step-by-step EXACTLY what to do to get a girl or woman EXTREMELY aroused to give her orgasms easily and faster during intercourse.
So again, there you have it…
…the importance of foreplay.
I hope this article has given you an insight into the importance of foreplay.
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Read: ‘How to Perform Foreplay on a Girl’ and ‘Foreplay Tips and Techniques’
You may also want to read: ‘Foreplay Orgasm’ and ‘How to Make a Woman Climax During Foreplay’
Frequently asked questions:
- What Is Foreplay?
- Is Foreplay Sex?
- Is Kissing Foreplay?
- Is Giving Oral Part of Foreplay?
- Is Giving Head Foreplay?
- What Do Women Like in Foreplay?
- What Part of Foreplay Do Women Like Best?
- Does A Woman Like Her Breasts Touched During Foreplay?
- Do Women Like Having Their Nipples Sucked During Foreplay?
- Can You Cum During Foreplay?
- Can A Woman Climax During Foreplay?
- How Much Foreplay Do Women Need Before Sex?
- How Soon After Foreplay Will a Woman Want to Be Penetrated?
- What Can Women Give a Man for Foreplay?
- When A Girl Gets Wet During Foreplay Is That Cum?
For more questions and answers on foreplay, go here: Frequently Asked Questions on Foreplay.
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